Was totally confued of the which topic to choose since 2 days. As I warned you guys before,At times I sound like an agony aunt , saying that, in my college days, I had that role (still at times), my not so close friends also end up sharing their worries with me, and I really felt lucky to console them, to make them feel good by sharing almost similiar experince which I had gone through , just a way to say them, “I too had been there” . I use to be happy (even if I might not ve said them this ,then) seeing them happy. And sometimes my inner social conscious use to wisper me that I should be a counsellor, but, as days and years passed of it slipped my head. I would like to share a technique which me and my friend’s use to adopt to get rid of the weed friends :p , it may sound crazy but it really works .
Suppose you are extremely annoyed by someone ( no no not saying about ur DH ), and you have decided ” this is it, I can’t take the torture anymore from him/her ” . And you started to neglect him/her, you ignore their call ,you even avoid them in parties or getogethers. But suddenly, you realise that, rest of your common friends started noticing your weird behaviour , and firmly speaks in favor of you enemy , they naturally tends to befriend your enemy more and stays away from you. As you realise what’s going on arround you, makes your life miserable and gifts you sleepless nights. Thought of beings alone starts haunting you. Yeah this is the perfect time you meet your instinct, to figure out who’s/what’s wrong??and you concludes, more than your enemy, you had a wrong attitude. And before being to late you will decide to change yourself for good:) , but, there comes the barrior again, meeting THAT IDIOT.
THE SECRET :
If you had been throughall these things and thought yourself as a psycho, NO YOU ARE NOT , THIS HAPPENS WITH EVERYONE. SO, this is the secret we friend’s use to follow : “Make sure you love your enemy not like Jesus said, make sure that you pour up your extra attetion and love on her and she starts getting annoyed by your behaviour , and thus, results in 2 things :
- EIther, she might realise the torture what she gave to you and decides to change herself to a better and less annoying person. but the most common thing which happens is
- Or, she gets irritated (yes yes the same way what you felt before ) , and , she herself will make sure that she will not come on your way (much better and convinient way).
NB : MY TECHNIQUE IS NOT APPLICABLE ON ME :):)